My passion for romance novels run deep.
I love to read romance stories with sex scenes that are woven
nicely within the plot and played out perfectly by the characters. In the same
way, I enjoy writing sex scenes that are real and deepen the relationship
between the characters. Writing sex scenes lights a fire in me and gives me a
satisfying buzz.
In practical terms, the aim is to write sex scenes that help
real life couples learn a thing or two on how to please their partners. Over
the years, I have benefited immensely from reading romance novels with various
heat levels.
However, it is more important to build an irresistible emotional
tension and toe-curling romance between the characters and to develop a
gripping plot for the sex scenes to give the added oomph!
Out of my eight published romance books, Stolen Valentine Kiss
(Holiday Series #1) is the only title that has no explicit sex scene, but it is
rich in clean romantic scenes with captivating emotional tension.
WHERE DO I
GET MY IDEAS TO WRITE SEX SCENES?
Do you really want me to answer honestly? Lol!
More seriously, writing sex scenes is the most challenging
aspect for me. To get the scenes smoking hot, I have to get into the characters
head, heart and understand their attitude, personality, disposition, sexual
tendencies and the specific situation. Once the atmosphere is fully tense, piping
the plot with the appropriate heat level comes easy.
There are some sex scenes I have written that were purely
instinctive. In other words, there are no hard or fast rules. The characters,
plot, setting, heat level and so on, all drive a great romance story.
Thank you for having me, Siggy. It has been a pleasure to share
my thoughts on writing sex scenes with you.
Stella Eromonsere-Ajanaku
Flirty & Feisty Romance
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